Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of William White with the following comment:
I am a descendant of them living in New Zealand and require the image for a family history that I am writing. Their son William, who was baptised in the Chiddingstone church, migrated to New Zealand in 1863.Thanking you in anticipation.P.S. I requested the image on 20 November but do not appear to have received it.